So, what is the meaning of love?  We’ve spoken before on Romance Tracker about the many different kinds of love, from romantic love to platonic love.  But can the true meaning of love really be defined in any kind of objective way, or is the definition of love completely subjective and different for every person?

Perhaps as a reflection of the fact that the meaning of love is an intensely subjective thing, the dictionary has nearly 30 different definitions for the word “love.”  The first love definition, “a passionate affection for another person,” is probably one that many romantic couples could relate to and understand.  But just because this definition of love is widely accepted by people in a romantic relationship doesn’t mean that it’s the only meaning of love out there.

Another common theme on this website is that each romantic relationship is extremely unique, with different experiences and tastes that make up a dynamic that is exclusive as a single snowflake.  Although we may agree on a textbook definition of love that can describe the meaning of love for most couples, there is really no way to accurately say what the meaning of love is for every lover in the world.

So, what’s the point of debating semantics when it comes to the meaning of love?  Well, it’s to let you know that your own personal definition of love, even if it is something that differs from the majority of people out there, is nothing you should feel strange about.  If the true meaning of love to you is something that you are comfortable with and if the way you define love doesn’t harm anyone else, then that is your prerogative and nothing you should be ashamed of.

More importantly, though, it is paramount that you and your lover share a common idea of what the meaning of love really is.  If you and your significant other define the meaning of love differently, you’ll approach your romantic relationship and affection differently, and hurt feelings could be the result.  If you haven’t yet, make sure you sit down with your sweetheart and ask them what the true meaning of love is to them.  Share your real feelings about what love means, and if you define love in different terms, try to find common ground and come to a consensus about expectations in your relationship.

So, what is the definition or the true meaning of love?  As you can probably figure out, love has a different meaning for everyone!  Just make sure that your lover understands and appreciates your personal definition of love, and that you equally respect the meaning of love to them.  When two people share a similar philosophy on what love means, there is no limit to the amount of romance they can add to their relationship!  

It’s funny but true: a lot of the best romantic ideas for adding more love and excitement to your marriage or relationship are things you were taught in kindergarten! 

Make a daily “thank you” one of your romantic habits!

Is being polite romantic?  Of course it is!  And in addition to learning how to say you’re sorry, simply telling your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend “thank you” on a regular basis can actually improve your relationship and add more romance to your life.

So, why is it romatic to say thanks?  As I’ve said before, a romance isn’t about huge, overwhelming, infrequent gestures; instead, a relationship is made fulfilling, exciting and rewarding by adding small, subtle, consistent acts to your everyday life.  And saying “thank you” on a regular basis, whenever it is appropriate, is one of those small, subtle things that add to the overall romantic aura of your relationship.

Let’s face it: people just love knowing that the things they do are appreciated.  And when your sweetheart gets a thanks for something nice they’ve done for you it doesn’t just make them feel better about themselves; it also makes them more likely to do something nice for you again!

Don’t forget to say thanks for the little things! 

It seems strange, but the most powerful thank-you you can give someone isn’t for the really significant things they do for you.  Who would forget to show their appreciation to someone who had just saved their life or given them a million dollars?  No, it’s the appreciation that you show for small things, the offers of thanks that your significant other doesn’t expect, that really show how much you love having them in your life.

So the next time your lover does something small and considerate for you, why not say ”thank you?”  It might be the one tiny positive thing that tips the scales and turns a bad day . . . into a romantic day! 

So, when’s the last time you gave your special someone a genuine compliment?

With good manners and politeness getting less and less common in today’s brusque society, even romantic relationships and marriages are starting to suffer from a lack of common courtesy and compliments. Sure, your girlfriend, wife, husband or boyfriend may already know that you think they are attractive or exciting or intelligent. But why should that stop you from using romantic ideas  and complimenting them every now and then?

Compliments shouldn’t only be reserved for new acquaintances or people who you’re trying to impress. The special people whose support we sometimes take for granted need an occasional compliment, too. A simple “you look very nice today” or “I’m very proud of the job you are doing” can make your lover feel like a million bucks.

There’s no reason to go overboard with compliments, of course, and too many can go to a person’s head or start sounding cynical. But promising yourself to give your significant other at least one nice compliment a day is a great way to make your lover feel appreciated and add some good old-fashioned romance to your relationship.

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Here’s a quick list of ten romantic quotes to add a few old-fahioned romantic ideas to your day . . .

“Love is a friendship set to music.”

–E. Joseph Cossman

“If you have it [love], you don’t need anything else, and if you don’t have it, it doesn’t matter much what else you have.”

–Sir James M. Barrie

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For the truly romantic person, thinking of romantic ideas for saying “I love you” in fresh and unique ways is never a problem; there are a million different ways to show your lover how you feel about them, and every day offers new opportunities to inject romance into your life. But exactly when to say I love you, and deciding which moment is the best to express your feelings to your lover, can be a bit more difficult to decide on. Is there really a perfect time to say “I love you,” and if so, when is it?

If there is such a thing as the perfect time of day to let your girlfriend, wife, boyfriend or husband know how you feel, it’s probably different for every romantic relationship or marriage. Romance is a very personal experience, and each loving relationship is as unique as an individual set of fingerprints or a single snowflake. The exact experiences, memories, feelings and circumstances present in your relationship can’t be found in any other. So while saying “I love you” as you come home from work might be best in one relationship, saying it as you lay down to bed might be best in another.

But regardless of when you feel the most comfortable saying “I love you,” you should never, ever stop saying it at other times. Love is a renewable resource, and you’ll never run out of “I love you’s” if you say them too much. Who cares if you already told your sweetheart you loved them that morning? That shouldn’t stop you from telling them again that afternoon and that evening.

Don’t limit yourself to expressing your loving feelings only a certain amount of times during a day; instead, tell your lover how you feel whenever the fancy strikes you. Sure, if you started saying “I love you” three thousand times a day, that might cause a strain on even the strongest relationship. But if you have a healthy, open relationship, expressing your love three times or even ten times a day should only strengthen it.

Here’s one bit of advice to add some variety to your relationship, though: try saying “I love you” at times when it’s unexpected, rather than when you’ve always said it in the past. If your partner is only used to hearing you express your love when you leave for work in the morning, call to tell them again when you get to work. If they’re used to hearing “I love you” as you lay down for bed at night, tell them how you feel as soon as you open your eyes in the morning.

Is there a perfect time to say “I love you?” The answer is yes, but the only person who can decide when that is for your relationship is you. But by promising yourself not to limit yourself in how often you express your feelings, and by doing it at unexpected moments, you can that each “I love you” will be as close to perfect as possible!

Here’s a fun little exercise in romantic ideas and the language of love! Here at Romance Tracker, we believe that a simple act of love really is the universal language, and that showing your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband how much you care for them is much more important that just saying it. But the words “I love you” still exist as the most important phrase in the world, and every culture and country in the history of this planet developed their own unique ways of putting their love into words.

Below is a list of some of the different ways to say “I love you” in languages from across the globe. You might not ever have the chance to visit every one of the countries or cultures listed below, but I’m sure your romantic partner would absolutely love it if you took the time to learn how to say “I love you” to them in some different languages.

So pick out a few of the phrases below and surprise your sweetheart with a words of love from another language! It’s just the type of fun, unique thing that will add a wonderful new dimension to your romantic relationship or marriage.

1. How to say “I Love You” in Arabic: Ana Behibak (To A Male)
2. How to say “I Love You” in Arabic: Ana Behibek (To A Female)
3. How to say “I Love You” in Assamese: Moi Tomak Bhal Pau
4. How to say “I Love You” in Bengali: Ami Tomay Bhalo bashi
5. How to say “I Love You” in Bolivian: Quechua Qanta Munani
6. How to say “I Love You” in Bulgarian: Obicham Te
7. How to say “I Love You” in Burmese: Chit Pa De
8. How to say “I Love You” in Cambodian: Bon Sro Lanh Oon
9. How to say “I Love You” in Canadian: Sh’teme
10. How to say “I Love You” in Catalan: T’estim Molt
11. How to say “I Love You” in Cebuano: Gihigugma Ko Ikaw
12. How to say “I Love You” in Chinese: Wo Ie Ni
13. How to say “I Love You” in Corsican: Ti Tengu Cara (To Female)
14. How to say “I Love You” in Corsican: Ti Tengu Caru (To Male)
15. How to say “I Love You” in Croatian: Ljubim Te
16. How to say “I Love You” in Czech: Miluji Te
17. How to say “I Love You” in Danish: Jeg Elsker Dig
18. How to say “I Love You” in Dutch: Ik Hou Van Jou
19. How to say “I Love You” in Ecuador: Quechua Canda Munani
20. How to say “I Love You” in Esperanto: Mi Amas Vin
21. How to say “I Love You” in Estonian: Mina Armastan Sind
22. How to say “I Love You” in Farsi: Tora Dust Midaram
23. How to say “I Love You” in Farsi (Persian): Doostat Daram
24. How to say “I Love You” in Filipino: Mahal Ka Ta
25. How to say “I Love You” in Finnish: Mina Rakastan Sinua
26. How to say “I Love You” in Flemish: Ik Zie Oe Geerne
27. How to say “I Love You” in French: Je T’aime
28. How to say “I Love You” in German: Ich Liebe Dich
29. How to say “I Love You” in Greek: S’ Agapo
30. How to say “I Love You” in Gujarati: Hoon Tane Pyar Karoo chhoon
31. How to say “I Love You” in Hebrew: Ani Ohev Otach (to Female)
32. How to say “I Love You” in Hebrew: Ani Ohevet Otcha (to Male)
33. How to say “I Love You” in Hindi: Mai tumse Pyar karta hoon (to Female)
34. How to say “I Love You” in Hindi: Mai tumse Pyar karti hoon (to Male)
35. How to say “I Love You” in Hungarian: Szeretlek
36. How to say “I Love You” in Icelandic: Eg Elska Thig
37. How to say “I Love You” in Indonesian: Saja Kasih Saudari
38. How to say “I Love You” in Irish: Taim I’ Ngra Leat
39. How to say “I Love You” in Italian: Ti Amo
40. How to say “I Love You” in Japanese: Kimi O Ai Shiteru
41. How to say “I Love You” in Kannada: Naanu Ninnanu Preethisuthene
42. How to say “I Love You” in Kiswahili: Nakupenda
43. How to say “I Love You” in Korean: Tangsinul Sarang Ha Yo
44. How to say “I Love You” in Latin: Te Amo
45. How to say “I Love You” in Latvian: Ess Milu Tevi
46. How to say “I Love You” in Lisbon: Gramo-Te Bue’, Chavalinha
47. How to say “I Love You” in Lithuanian: Tave Myliu
48. How to say “I Love You” in Macedonian: Sakam Te!
49. How to say “I Love You” in Malay/Indonesian: Aku Sayang Enkow
50. How to say “I Love You” in Malayalam: Njyaan Ninne’ Preetikyunnu
51. How to say “I Love You” in Marathi: Me Tujhashi Prem Karto (to Female)
52. How to say “I Love You” in Marathi: Me Tujhashi Prem Karte (to Male)
53. How to say “I Love You” in Norwegian: Jeg Elsker Deg
54. How to say “I Love You” in Persian: Tora Dost Daram
55. How to say “I Love You” in Polish: Kocham Cie
56. How to say “I Love You” in Portuguese: (Brazilian) Eu Te Amo
57. How to say “I Love You” in Punjabi: Mai Taunu Pyar Karda
58. How to say “I Love You” in Romanian: Te Iu Besc
59. How to say “I Love You” in Russian: Ya Vas Liubliu
60. How to say “I Love You” in Serbian: Lubim Te
61. How to say “I Love You” in Serbo-Croatian: Volim Te
62. How to say “I Love You” in Sinhalese: Mama Oyata Adarei
63. How to say “I Love You” in Slovak: Lubim Ta
64. How to say “I Love You” in Spanish: Te Quiero
65. How to say “I Love You” in Sri Lankan: Mama Oyata Arderyi
66. How to say “I Love You” in Swahili: Naku Penda
67. How to say “I Love You” in Swedish: Jag A’Lskar Dig
68. How to say “I Love You” in Swiss-German: Ch’ha Di Ga”Rn
69. How to say “I Love You” in Syrian/Lebanese: Bhebbek (to Female)
70. How to say “I Love You” in Syrian/Lebanese: Bhebbak (to Male)
71. How to say “I Love You” in Tamil: Nan Unnai Kaathalikkiren
72. How to say “I Love You” in Telugu: Neenu Ninnu Pra’mistu’nnanu
73. How to say “I Love You” in Thai: Ch’an Rak Khun
74. How to say “I Love You” in Tunisian: Ha Eh Bak
75. How to say “I Love You” in Turkish: Seni Seviyo*Rum
76. How to say “I Love You” in Ukrainian: Ja Tebe Kokhaju
77. How to say “I Love You” in Urdu: Mujhe Tumse Mohabbat Hai
78. How to say “I Love You” in Vietnamese: Em Ye’U Anh (to Man)
79. How to say “I Love You” in Vietnamese: Anh Ye’U Em (to Woman)
80. How to say “I Love You” in Vulcan: Wani Ra Yana Ro Aisha
81. How to say “I Love You” in Welsh: Rwy’n Dy Garu Di
82. How to say “I Love You” in Yugoslavian: Ya Te Volim
83. How to say “I Love You” in Zulu: Ngiyakuthanda!

Regular readers of Romance Tracker know that there are literally hundreds of different romantic ideas for ways to tell your romantic partner you love them through actions instead of words, but actually telling your lover how you feel is important, too. Luckily, the truly romantic person doesn’t just have to rely upon “I love you” to express those feelings of love. There are dozens and dozens of different creative phrases and colloquialisms that lovers can use to express their love, and the 101 variations below are just a few of them.

By telling your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband you love them in a variety of different ways, you can inject much-needed freshness into your relationship or marriage and make it seem like you’re saying “I love you” to your sweetheart for the first time all over again. Make yourself a promise to express your love with a different phrase every day and you’ll help build a better relationship in a subtle and powerful way.

But don’t stop with the list of 101 ways to say “I love you” that I’ve come up with! Sit down and come up with a few yourself. Every romantic relationship is unique, and the experiences and secrets you’ve shared with you lover are ripe with special ways for you to say “I love you.” Use the following list as a jump-start to create your own, more personalized ways of saying “I love you” today!

1. I adore you

2. I’m affectionate for you

3. I’m attached to you

4. I’m enchanted by you

5. You’re my enchantment

6. I burn for you

7. You fill my heart

8. I’m fond of you

9. You’re my missing piece

10. You’re the only one for me

11. I’m totally devoted to you

12. I’m infatuated with you

13. I’m mad about you

14. You’re all I see

15. I’m passionate about you

16. I’m enraptured with you

17. I relish you

18. You’re the light of my life

19. You’re my soft spot

20. I’m tender for you

21. I’m wild about you

22. I worship you

23. You’re my everything

24. I admire you so much

25. I adulate you

26. I more than care for you

27. I cherish you like nothing else

28. I delight in your company

29. No one matters but you

30. I dote on you

31. I’m falling for you

32. I fancy you

33. I only have eyes for you

34. I’ve flipped over you

35. You’re my hero

36. You make me feel young

37. You’re on my mind

38. You’re wonderful to me

39. You’re adorable to me

40. You amaze me

41. You blow me away

42. You electrify me

43. My feelings are overwhelmed by you

44. You make my life worth living

45. You’re my inspiration

46. You make me feel good about myself

47. I’m stupefied by you

48. I idolize you

49. I long for you

50. You’re my treasure

51. I delight in you

52. I glorify you

53. I laud you

54. I have a flame for you

55. You’re my object of affection

56. I marvel in your presence

57. I dig you

58. I totally go for you

59. You’re just my style

60. You’re my prize

61. I hold you in reverence

62. I venerate you

63. You comfort me

64. You nourish me

65. I enshrine you

66. I hold you dear

67. I honor you

68. You nurture me

69. You sustain me

70. I want you so badly

71. I’m crazy about you

72. I’m nuts about you

73. You’re my one and only

74. You’re everything to me

75. You complete me

76. You make me whole

77. I luxuriate in you

78. I need you more than anything

79. You’re special to me

80. You make me whole

81. I’m nothing without you

82. You’re the air I breath

83. I’ve looked for you my entire life

84. I miss you so much

85. I would be lost without you

86. You’re my savior

87. You’re my stars and moon

88. I’m bedazzled by you

89. You’re my aphrodisiac

90. I’m sweet on you

91. I glory in you

92. I savor every moment with you

93. I’m infatuated with you

94. I’m beguiled with you

95. I’m besotted by you

96. You carry me away

97. I’m charmed by you

98. I’m hooked on you

99. I’m intoxicated by you

100. You’re my indulgence

101. You’re my obsession

If you’re a regular reader of Romance Tracker, you already know that there are literally hundreds of different ways to say “I love you” to your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband. Whether it’s with actions, romantic competition, or even romantic text messages, true romantics have an endless amount of romantic ideas to show that special someone that they love them. Heck, finding ways and ideas for saying “I Love You” is the easy part. But actually telling a person that you are in love with them for the first time can be a little . . . intimidating, even for the most romantic among us.

So, are there secrets to saying “I love you” for the first time? Of course not. If you’re nervous about telling that special person about your romantic feelings, first remind yourself that lovers have heard those three words for the first time under countless circumstances and in a million different ways. And do you know what? If two people are truly in love, they won’t care one bit about when or where or how those words were said for the first time.

Whether it’s on a romantic beach, at a busy airport terminal, or written in a love letter, that first “I love you” is something that every person remembers for the rest of their lives. If you feel that it’s the right time and place to finally say it, even a greasy old diner will seem like the most romantic place in the world when you both think back on it.

But how will you know when it’s the right time to say “I love you?” Can you say it too soon? Well, yes, you can. Obviously, telling someone you are in love with them on a first date might come across as a little . . . weird, and it’s unlikely your sentiments would be returned. A truly romantic relationship or marriage needs to develop slowly, and if you feel that there’s a reason to rush things, you may want reconsider your motivations.

If you find yourself falling in love with someone but feel that it’s a bit too early to say it, there’s nothing wrong with letting the relationship continue to develop and waiting for the perfect moment to state your love. Don’t be too eager . . . and remember that the perfect moment could pop up any time and surprise you both.

Some people who feel the time is right, however, may want to have more control over the circumstances and not leave it up to chance. Actually planning out how you’ll say “I love you” can be worth the time and effort. The place where you went on your first date, a romantic weekend getaway, or even at the end of a well-planned, fun event are all great places and times to let that special someone know you love them.

One important thing to remember: never tell someone you love them for the first time expecting to hear the same thing back. Being told “I love you” can be a very breathtaking event for some people, and even if they share the same feelings it may be difficult for them to say it back right away. Simply say the words because you want to say them–don’t press for a response or act disappointed if your sentiments aren’t returned right away. Be patient, and prove your love to that person by dedicating yourself to the relationship and making it easier for them when they are ready to say “I love you” back.

The most important word to remember, then, is patience. Patience to nurture and develop your romantic relationship, patience to wait for the right time and place to say “I love you,” and patience in waiting to hear “I love you” back. With a lot of patience and a little bravery, you’ll succeed in creating a romantic memory you and your soon-to-be wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend will remember together for years to come.

In the days before microcircuitry and LCD screens, lovers professed their romantic feelings for each other by dipping quills in ink and penning poetic love letters accented by elaborate script and even the occasional teardrop stain. The most prolific romantics–like the fictional, lovesick Cyrano de Bergerac–spent long hours coming up with romantic ideas and authoring flowery testaments to their objects of affection before sealing parchment with rose-colored wax and sending the correspondence off with a courier as quickly as one could be found.

Old-fashioned romantic love notes . . . with a modern twist!

Whether by horseback, secret delivery in the dark of night, or even tied to the leg of a pigeon, the romantic love letters of long ago overcame obstacles of distance and oppression to reach their objects of affection. While hand-written messages of love are still a necessary and important part of healthy romantic relationships or marriages today, the contemporary romantic no longer needs to order a fresh bottle of ink or keep a courier on hand to deliver sporadic thoughts of love that innevitably pop up during the course of the day.

Some may complain that modern technology has made romance too cheap and easy, but digital innovation, if used sparingly, can help build a better, more romantic relationship with your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband.

Most people today have cell phones, but I’ve met far too many who are hesitant to try text messaging or who think they would have no use for it. Expecially in a romantic relationship, texting can provide an important, unique forum for you and your lover to communicate in a fun new way.

Skip the small talk . . . and get right to romance!

Instead of making a romantic relationship less personal, text messaging can actually increase the amount of communication by allowing couples to express feelings that they wouldn’t otherwise. If, for example, you have a sudden thought at work of a romantic moment you shared recently with your lover, in many cases you won’t have the time or the privacy to call and talk about it. But text messaging allows you to send a very brief, very private message to your lover without anyone around you having a clue.

In addition, text messaging lets us send little romantic sentiments to our lovers without having to surround our message with the empty small talk and uncomfortable pauses that might come with a phone call. Just a few short romantic words are all that are necessary in a text . . . but we would never dream of calling our lover, saying those same few words, then hanging up right away!

Put thought into what you send . . . but don’t overdo it!

So, what kind of romantic text messages should you send to your lover? That’s up to you. You could decide to send a snippet from a romantic poem or a flowery message every day, but often all that’s necessary is a simply “I love you” or “I’m thinking about you.” Even short, sporadic messages like that will show your lover that they are on your mind and help improve your relationship.

One thing to keep in mind, though: it is possible to overdo text messaging. Because it’s so easy to do, it can be tempting to send text after text during boring lulls in your day. Don’t give in to this urge; it can be expensive if you’re paying a few cents per text, and no matter how much in love someone is they can still get annoyed by too much romance. Try to limit yourself to a few romantic texts a day, and you’ll be amazed at the positive difference it makes in your relationship.

So what are you waiting for? Go plug in to a great new way of using technology to add more romance to your relationship today. Get texting!

It’s an easy thing to tell someone you love them, but a truly romantic person knows that showing your love is more important to a relationship or marriage than simply stating your love. “I love you” may be a phrase of only three words, but there are millions of different romantic ideas and ways to say it to your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband. Never limit yourself to spoken words when expressing your romantic feelings!

Showing your lover how much they mean to you every day will help you build a better, more romantic relationship, but it’s also addicting. Even people who have never tried to be romantic before will be amazed at how much more exciting and fun a relationship can be when just a little bit of romance is added to the mix. And being romantic doesn’t mean spending big bucks; in fact, the less expensive and more original a romantic gesture is, the better it shows how much you love someone.

Following are 101 inexpensive ways to say “I love you,” but they’re only the tip of a giant, romantic iceberg with limitless possibilities for you and your lover. Are they simple, common sense ideas? Well, sure they are. There’s no secret to being romantic, and the best ways of showing your feelings to someone are always the simplest ways. Promise yourself to try one of the ideas on this list every day, or use it to develop your own ways to show your love.

Saying “I love you” for the first time may be nervewracking, but dozens of opportunities for being romantic present themselves every day. Teach yourself to identify and grab those opportunities for romance and you’ll be amazed at how romantic and fulfilling your relationship will become!

101 Inexpensive Ways to Say “I Love You”

1. Write your lover an original, romantic poem (no matter how bad or sappy it is!)
2. Give your lover a romantic massage
3. Take an evening to learn all about your lover’s hobby or unique interest
4. Prepare a romantic meal for your lover (even if you’re a lousy cook)
5. Rent a romantic movie to watch with your lover (An Affair to Remember and Casablanca are great!)
6. Make a list for your lover of your ten favorite romantic memories of the time you’ve spent together
7. Tell your lover how much you enjoy waking up to them in the morning as soon as you wake up
8. Buy flowers for your lover’s mother to thank her for bringing such a special person into the world
9. Wash the dishes by hand with your lover, even if you have a dishwasher
10. Bring your lover romantic flowers at least once a week
11. Take your lover to a free museum or art exhibit
12. Make a romantic picture frame for your lover with your favorite photo of you together
13. Brag to your friends or family about how much you adore your lover
14. Make dinner for your lover’s family to get to know them better
15. Offer to give your lover a haircut (but only if you know what you’re doing!)
16. Buy the sappiest, cheapest greeting card you can find and add your own special romantic message
17. Make giving your lover a hug your first priority when you get home from work
18. Tell your lover that your relationship is your number one priority
19. Ask your lover to teach you how to make their favorite meal
20. Take your lover to a romantic park to push them on a swing
21. Save romantic souveniers from every date you go on with your lover
22. Take your lover on a romantic ferris wheel ride
23. Clean your lover’s car for them
24. Write your lover a “101 reasons why I love you” list
25. Kiss your lover on the cheek every day
26. Make a romantic scrapbook full of pictures showing your lover as a kid growing up and give it to them as a present
27. Buy your lover an inexpensive box of candy to share together (not just for Valentine’s Day!)
28. Build a romantic sandcastle together with your lover at the beach
29. Take your lover back to the place where you went on your first date together
30. Give your lover a romantic thank-you note for all of the happiness they bring you
31. Learn how to sew and surprise your lover by fixing a ripped article of clothing for them
32. Email or scribble down a snippet from a romantic poem for your lover
33. Whisper secret romantic words in your lover’s ear, even when you are alone together
34. Put together a romantic photo album of pictures of you and your lover
35. Put a smiling picture of your lover on your car’s dashboard
36. Take your lover on a romantic afternoon hike or walk
37. Have flowers delivered to your lover at home or work
38. Read romantic love poems to your lover and laugh together at how sappy it is
39. Try to knit your lover a horrible, romantic winter hat, sweater or gloves
40. Mail your lover a card or letter expressing your love, even if you live together
41. Put a gentle arm around your lover’s shoulders when walking together
42. Make your lover a romantic calendar with a different picture of you together for each month
43. Watch a romantic movie together and make a bowl of popcorn for you to share
44. Take your lover on a romantic drive in a rich part of town to look at houses together
45. Buy an inexpensive bottle of wine for you and your lover to share
46. Say “I’m proud of you” to your lover
47. Paint a picture for your lover, no matter how awful your painting skills
48. Write a letter to the editor of your local paper thanking your lover for everything they do for you
49. Breath on your lover’s hands to warm them when it’s cold outside
50. Make your lover a romantic CD of songs that are special to you
51. Pack a special, romantic picnic for your lover
52. Take your lover out to try one of your favorite hobbies or sports–or try theirs!
53. Tell your lover how much your first kiss or date meant to you
54. Use romantic text messages to send your lover love letters on their cell phone
55. Start a romantic blog for your lover with pictures and posts about your relationship
56. Express your love on a mirror or window by writing with a bar of soap (don’t worry, it washes off!)
57. Romantically kiss each of your lover’s fingertips, one after another
58. Learn how to play a song for your lover on a musical instrument, then surprise them with a romantic impromptu performance
59. Surprise your lover with lunch at work
60. Surprise your lover with romantic rose petals on the pillows at bedtime
61. Cut out small hearts from construction paper and leave them in places where your lover will find them
62. Email your lover to let them know you are thinking of them during the day
63. Plant flowers in your lover’s yard or in a windowsill planter
64. Draw a romantic, funny cartoon for your lover expressing your love (the worse the drawing the better!)
65. Learn how to give your lover an amateur manicure
66. Sing a romantic karaoke song for your lover the next time you go to a bar together
67. Have a romantic dinner waiting for your lover after work
68. Light romantic candles for your lover at dinner, bedtime or when sitting around
69. Learn how say “I love you” in a different language to surprise your lover
70. Send a romantic e-card to your lover’s email inbox
71. Shovel the driveway for your lover after a snowstorm
72. Surprise your lover by changing the oil in their car or rotating their tires
73. Ask your lover’s family about any special ideas for making them happier
74. Offer to paint your lover’s nails (if a woman) or to help him shave (if a man)
75. Bake your lover a cake and write a special romantic message in frosting
76. Play romantic music while eating together or spending time together
77. Cook for your lover in a way you’ve never tried before, like grilling outside
78. Ask your lover to dance with you to a romantic song while your are alone together
79. Take your lover for a romantic bike ride
80. Use creative romantic words other than “I love you” to tell your lover how you feel
81. Rake the yard or mow the lawn for your lover
82. Instead of store-bought flowers, make a romantic bouquet of wildflowers for your lover
83. Make your lover homemade candy instead of buying
84. Take turns reading to each other from a favorite novel or book
85. Buy a book of romantic art and ask your lover to look at it with you
86. Make a scrapbook of all the romantic notes and cards you’ve received from your lover
87. Take your lover sledding on a snow day (it’s not just for kids!)
88. Make plans with your lover for exciting and fun weekend dates for the rest of the month
89. Try an exciting new recreational activity with your lover that neither of you have done before
90. Call in sick to work on your anniversary every year just to spend romantic time with your lover
91. Find out your lover’s favorite drink and become a master at making it
92. Make a list with your lover of all the wonderful things you have in common
93. Go to the fair with your lover and win them a stuffed animal (whether you’re a man or a woman!)
94. Call your lover during the work day to tell them you were thinking of them
95. Put time and thought into making homemade jewelry for your lover (but don’t forget to buy the real stuff occasionally!)
96. Ask your lover for a picture of them to carry in your wallet or purse
97. Try baking a romantic batch of cookies or cupcakes for you lover
98. Sneak out to get ice cream to share with your lover
99. Take your lover to garage sales or flea markets to shop together for things you both enjoy
100. Play a competitive game with your lover, whether physical or non-physical, and don’t be afraid to lose
101. Make your own list of 101 new ways to be romantic with your lover!